The wedding was better than I ever expected. Everything seemed to come together for a really magical evening. The weather was good, the food was good, the music was good, the dancing was a blast, all the vendors we hired turned out great, the staff at the Inn was great, the people were amazing. In fact, I’ll have to do separate posts for each of the vendors as they deserve the props and web linkage, just not in this post. As with all weddings, there wasn’t enough time to talk to everybody. It was wonderful to see so many friends and family all together. I doubt I’ll have that many friends and family together at once again unless I start throwing huge parties and paying to fly people in.
I was a little worried about the weather considering it poured on Kim and me Thursday night while we were camping in a slightly leaky tent. It turned out to be very nice the day of the wedding though, even if it did pour the next day for our picnic. We got to have the ceremony outside, and the leaves were lovely. Sierra threw leaves instead of flowers.
I wasn’t supposed to see Kim at all the day of the wedding until the ceremony, so it was amusing trying to avoid each other around the Inn. I went for a run by myself that turned into a tromp upstream in my drenched shoes since I wanted to cross and run on the other side but fell in. I later went for a walk with Brian and Bridgid up one of the hills. The day of the wedding was pretty chill up until the ceremony since we had been running around like crazy taking care of details the few days before. I’m glad Kim hasn’t been in school or working the last few weeks so that she had time to take care of so many details.
The ceremony started a little late since Kim had to get into her beautiful dress that her mother and grandmother wore that I saw for the first time as she came down the aisle. I’m glad she doesn’t wear stuff like that often though because it was hard to be
around her without pulling her veil or stepping on her bustle. I liked the part in the ceremony where Bill and Sue asked who supports this couple and all the guests say we do. The whole ceremony was nice and I’m looking forward to getting a copy of the video from it.
After the ceremony Kim and I went off alone to do pictures. I think one of the coolest little details that the Inn at Baldwin Creek had setup was assigning Kim and I our own personal attendant. A girl name Laura, who is the daughter of the innkeepers, brought Kim and me drinks and appetizers all through the evening so that we didn’t miss out while everyone else was at happy hour. After some nice shots by the creek we did group pictures. Ugh. This was the only hard part of the whole evening. We had group photos too close to the tent with all the food and drinks and people kept wandering off, so it was hard to get all the photos done.
Having the tables mixed up and facts about people at the tables was probably one of the best ideas of the evening. Everyone was talking to each other and enjoying themselves. Just those little ice breakers were enough to really make people a lot more comfortable. Neither Kim nor I was that hungry, which was a shame because it was good food. Nathan’s toast was very good and funny. I got him and the fathers big beer glasses with their names on them. I kinda wish I’d gotten myself one they were so cool. Nathan and my dad were drinking out of his the rest of the evening.
The first dance went of very well. I hardly even remember it, it went by so fast, but I do know we got some of our snazzy moves in. The bubbles were a nice touch. Kim and her dad’s dance went great too, even when they had to adjust to having the song go longer than expected. After the first dances the dancing didn’t really stop the whole evening except for the cake cutting and garter toss. I danced with my grandma and mother and I think just about every girl in my family. The DJ did great. There were a few songs where Kim and I were wondering why he was playing them, but it was because people had requested them. Whatever kept people out dancing! There were dance circles and a conga line, and Kim looked awesome in a lot of pictures with her dress spinning. Nathan dove for the garter, and Roslyn dove and rolled twice for the bouqet. Steve ended up putting two garters on Roslyn though since Nathan was MIA until the first garter was on.
I think we ended the party at a good time, because I know my feet were tired and I think a lot of other people were beat from the non-stop action. Kim and I hung out for a little while with the people staying at the Inn, and then we left them to enjoy being alone for the first time as a married couple.
The next day we were late getting to the picnic with all the details and packing we still had to take care of, but it turned out to be fine since nobody got there at 10:30 anyway. It was pouring at the Branbury State Park, but more than 30 people showed up anyway. We all huddled under the picnic shelter and talked for a few hours. It was nice to get to spend some more time with people we didn’t get to at the wedding the night before.
The rest of the trip we returned Kim’s grandma’s car to Southington, hung out with Dan for an evening, and spent the day with Stephanie and Marc in New York. It’s always fun to visit New York, and it’s great now that we know some friends there. We walked around Central Park for while and played with hula hoops at the edge of the park before catching the subway to the airport and home. Going back to work was soooooo hard, but at least it’s only a few weeks before we leave for our honeymoon in Hawaii!